Nastya flew into the cafe, puffed up, disheveled, and with a lightly floated makeup. Flopping on a chair at the table, she started to chatter: “Oh, haven't seen a hundred years! Really found time to meet! Forgive me for being late, I again quarreled with my husband, so much so. Honestly - I already have no strength, I think, well, what kind of a man did I get, sheer torment! Sometimes you want to go and file for divorce. But children, of course, stop. ” Nastya took a deep breath, drank a glass of water in one gulp, asked the attendant, “How are you?” And, ignoring my answer past my ears, plunged into stories about my difficult family life, as she thought.
With her husband, Nastya has been living for 15 years, two children, her own apartment, car, good work, her husband is an exemplary family man - well, everything seems to be as it should. But last year they almost started a war. According to Nastya, the reason for everything is, of course, the husband. At work, he cannot get a promotion for the third year, they go on vacation to third-class resorts such as Turkey, her husband is getting stout, she doesn't want to go to the gym, although Nastya is forcing. In sex, he became some kind of inert and sluggish, wears her petty-bourgeois business suits, although Nastya constantly insists that it is no longer fashionable, and only losers like that.
He also absolutely does not notice a change in his wife: for example, yesterday Nastya returned with freshly made eyebrows from a beautician, but her husband did not even see. In addition, he always does not lower the toilet seat, with the lid open on the toothpaste he has already pulled out, smiles too little to her mother, and constantly forgets that the mugs should be put in the dryer, turning them with the handles one way. Ah, it’s annoying to the gnashing of teeth that annoys his way of driving a car, clutching the steering wheel with both hands, as if he only got right yesterday, and how he makes the bed, leaving a crease on the bedspread.
But the most offensive for Nastya in this story is that her husband suddenly became too rude, aggressive and arrogant. Almost stopped kissing and hugging her, reacts very sharply to any comment, constantly attacks her, and recently, after she reprimanded him for a spilled glass of water, he almost turned green, approached her closely, for a long time stared for a long time with red eyes from bursting vessels, and left, slamming the door. Nastya was so frightened that she even burst into tears from self-pity.
“No, you imagine, not only is he an asshole, a loser and a bore, so is also a tyrant! Soon, you see, it will start beating me! ”, The girlfriend scorched, gesturing angrily.
I stared in surprise at her, genuinely wondering why some women are so deaf, blind and short-sighted. Poor Nastin is a husband who is being sawn for any reason day and night, pointing out the slightest flaw, dictating what and how to do, and calling him a loser. A man who has been hurt for such a long time, resentment, discontent and guilt for not being able to live up to his wife’s expectations. Yes, Nastya has long trampled on him, destroyed and deeply buried his dignity. It is surprising that he has not sent her far away and has not left forever. So, dear friend, the whole thing may not be in a bad husband, but in a bad wife who purposefully kills in a man all that is good and good that is in him?