Instead, you better find out which men are worth staying away from, so you don’t have to worry later.
To do this, pay attention to some points. As soon as you notice them, you will immediately realize that they are not worth the time and attention, so immediately move away from them. When you meet the one with whom you want to build relationships, who do not have signs of "toxicity," only then can one think about developing relationships and moving one level higher.
Below we consider some signs that will help in this. It is important to understand that these are just recommendations. If intuition tells you that it’s not so simple with a man, it’s better to move away from him right away.
1. Immature, not serious men
Maturity is a significant trait to look for in a man if you want to build a long and healthy relationship. It is easy to succumb to the influence of young and immature men, because they are charming and interesting in their own way. But they are accustomed to go with the flow, and therefore do not expect much effort from you and are not ready to give it to you themselves.
If you show perseverance to immature men, they will think that you are a very "tenacious" girl, they will start to drift away. If you show them weakness, they will take it for granted.
Immature men do not want to think about how and in what direction their relationship develops. Moreover, they have to bring in something to work on. As long as they feel good and comfortable, they enjoy it, but if they get bored, they just leave without thinking. They will always go with the flow, and you will never be sure that you are near them.
When you notice that there is no seriousness, real life position behind a man’s charm, he doesn’t even want to discuss such a topic, do not waste your time on it.
2. Male Workaholics
For every man his work is important. In this case, there will always be those who are just beginning to build a career, and a woman is given a second plan. They all focus their efforts on moving up the career ladder in the course of their chosen profession. Their goal - to get rich as much as possible.
If we want to achieve something in life, of course, focusing on work, the development of professional skills is simply necessary. But it will lose all meaning if you have to give up all those close to you. This is an opportunity to wake up one beautiful morning and once again make sure that money is not everything in this world. There is still melancholy loneliness.
Accordingly, when a man works hard on the result, does his work, this is natural. Moreover, if he is not interested in you, or treats as a temporary girlfriend, he is not worth your attention. After all, then he will contact you only if he needs something. Rare meetings - that's what you get. If you want, he will even invite you on a date. But his thoughts at this moment will be about something else. About work.
Feeling real, sincere feelings for you, a man will make you occupy more space in his life, so that you can spend more time with you. For a male workaholic, you are just an object with which to have a good time and with whom you can relax quite well. Even if you manage to develop a relationship with such a person, in fact, he will always be absent from the family.
Later, workaholics still realize the importance of such relationships, but it’s necessary to wait for this moment for a long time, in some cases it never comes. Remember, you also have a life, just let that man go.
3. Male playboys
Most girls swear that they will stay away from such people. But it is easier said than done. No man at the meeting will tell about himself that he is a playboy. He will be cute, charming and talkative. It will be beautiful to care for, give sweet compliments that every girl wants to hear, and even it seems that everything is just perfect.
But all this is a blind. After a little analysis of your meetings, conversations, you will be able to understand that he is not real, insincere. "Sweet" conversations will become sugary, which is not a good basis for a serious relationship.
If the playboy is asked to tell about his life plans, you will make sure that there is no place for him in his life. All the same, he says to other women, and behaves the same way. He is a playboy, he seeks to play, have fun, have fun, but never create a serious relationship with you.
It is easy to succumb to his charms, but it is important to concentrate and think about whether he is serious about you. Do not wait for the moment when you find him in bed with another.
Do not be discouraged if, in minutes, when you begin to open up to a person, you understand that he is one of those. And never agree to build a relationship with the first man you find, just to not be left alone. If he is also rude to you, immediately break any ties.
Relationships are not always flowers and rainbows, be careful and patient. There are many good men around, it’s quite natural that you have to spend a little time to find the best. In the end, it's worth it.