Control is a significant problem in relationships - romantic, family, professional, friendly. People trying to control you, re-shape your reality. They do not respect you for who you are. They want to change you, make you look like yourself.
Control can be very clever, hidden behind offers of help, advice or jokes. If you recognize a controlling person, you will be able to resist his attempts to change your inner self.
But the problem is that some people do not know how to recognize such characters, because these manipulators are very clever and cunning in their work.
Most often, recognizing such a person and telling him that he did not do this, you will hear in response: “I just wanted to give you advice”, or “If I don’t tell you about it, who will say?” Or “Come on , I was just joking".
People under the influence of manipulators are often as if enchanted. They believe in what they tell them, and then they cannot “find themselves” among all illusions.
However, the awakening from the spell and the search for your true “I” can be accomplished if the person is ready and has the courage to find their own boundaries and a way to separate reality from fiction. If you wish, you can wake up from the world of dreams and even understand, remember how you fell under this spell.