Practically all of us, being girls, grew up whispering innocuous secrets to our close girlfriends. Then sharing secrets with friends was an integral part of growing up and understanding what trust means. However, in the adult world, things get a little more complicated.
Secrets in the adult world often become synonymous with secrecy and sweeping facts "under the carpet." Especially when it comes to relationships.
Each of us has secrets. However, it is safe to say that in relationships they turn into secrecy and can spoil them greatly.
Nothing is more destructive in relationships than keeping secrets from your man. In an open and honest stealth relationship and a double game, there should not and can be no place. Of course, you may have some level of confidentiality and you must have your own personal space, but open and honest communication with each other is the best and only way to build healthy relationships.
If all this doesn’t sound convincing enough, here are three reasons why you shouldn’t keep secrets from your man.
Secrets cease to be secrets sooner or later.
In other words, all secret becomes clear. At some point, your man will find out about your secret, or at least that you are hiding something from him. And his reaction may not be the most pleasant.
Secrets generate more secrets
Secrets have an uncanny ability to multiply at a very fast pace, and before you know it, you and your man may find that your relationship is drowning in a sea of secrets.
As soon as it becomes clear that you keep secrets, your man can start keeping secrets from you.
It is possible to break the vicious circle of lies only by being completely open and sincere with each other.