When in a relationship you begin to feel less important to your partner than work, friends, and even the telephone, it is always alarming. You are trying to become even more attractive to him, but the situation does not change.
By these "symptoms" it will be easier for you to understand whether your chosen one has fallen out of love with you.
1. He is not around more often than usual.
One of the signs that your husband no longer loves you is his absence. Suddenly, he urgently needs to go, and you have a distinct feeling that he is avoiding you.
Psychologists say that men who have fallen out of love with their wives are starting to come home later and spend more time away from home. If you spend the weekend together all the time, he will start making other plans. In the end, the excuses for his absence will look more and more stupid. If it becomes more difficult to communicate with a partner, this is a clear sign that something is wrong.
2. He has lost interest in your life.
A sure sign that your man may not love you more is that he is less and less interested in everyday events in your life.
He is no longer interested in knowing how your day went. He is not interested in your hobbies and interests. He starts making plans without attracting you. He no longer praises you and you no longer feel attractive in his eyes.
As a rule, if your husband is no longer interested in your life, this is a bad sign.
3. He began to disrespect you
Your once loving husband began to treat you rudely. He allows himself negative comments and constantly criticizes you. He even begins to verbally or emotionally insult you, his behavior has become passive-aggressive. You also noticed that you do not want to communicate with him.
Then he begins to compare you with other women or your relationship with other couples in a negative light. Suddenly, everything you do annoys him, even those little quirks that he once thought were cute.
When your husband deliberately hurts you, this is a clear indication that he has lost interest in you.
4. He no longer cares about your emotional and physical needs.
There are many reasons why your sex life can become worse. However, certain negative changes in your intimate communication may mean that you no longer attract him. If it seems that the passion has completely disappeared, and the husband does not show interest in her rebirth, he probably has fallen out of love with you.
If you understand that your husband no longer focuses on your needs or is not trying to satisfy them, then something is wrong with your relationship.
5. His behavior during quarrels has changed
When a partner has fallen out of love, he behaves differently in a conflict. All couples have their own individual style of conflict resolution, however, when the couple’s relationships are stable, they use a relatively consistent method to resolve their conflicts.
See if your husband behaves like this:
- He became indifferent and stopped arguing altogether, calming you instead, and then continuing to do what he wants.
- He chooses harsh and convoluted arguments, and then uses them as an excuse to get out of the argument as quickly as possible.
- He is still angry for a long time after the argument has passed
6. He discusses your relationship negatively and hopelessly.
Men usually solve problems. If there is a problem, especially with the woman they love, they will do everything they can to try to solve it.
When he falls out of love, he no longer wants to take responsibility for the situation. He will blame you for everything that goes wrong in your relationship. His tone will also turn from sincere curiosity to indifference. You will hear something like: “I'm just not happy anymore. Is it worth it?
If he decided that it is impossible to correct your relationship, he is looking for a reason to part.
7. He became obsessed with his phone
Although he no longer communicates with you on the phone when you are not together, he remains the word glued to his phone when you are two. This is a way not to spend time with you. And if he flirts with someone else, he will never leave the phone because of the fear that you will convict him of infidelity.
8. He stopped saying that he loves you
If your husband has moved from the words “I love you” to “me too,” he probably loses interest in you.
If you see this, stop saying “I love you” for a few days and see what happens. If he also stops expressing his love, then obviously there is a problem.
We hope that you have a much better idea of whether he loves you or not. But if you find that he loses interest in you, do not panic.
The question of whether your man loves you is one of the most common questions that many women ask during a difficult period in a relationship. You are not alone. Remember that your relationship or marriage can rise from this ashes and flourish again. But now it's time to talk seriously.