If you feel that you need to understand what your man wants - you are not the only one. Women are often confused, trying to guess what their partners need.
The reality is that a man does not always want to talk openly about his needs. This may be due to different reasons: difficulties in the intimate plan or a clear fear of showing someone your true nature. This leads to misunderstandings, quarrels and phrases such as "not today, my head aches." Contrary to popular belief, he wants you to have more than sex with him.
Here are 10 things that men want from you, but which they very rarely ask for:
1. Emotions from the "hunt" for you
The thrill of “hunting” is something that not only men like to experience. However, sometimes during dating women unknowingly prevent men from enjoying such a “chase”. If you always initiate further dates and write messages to him, in fact, you do not allow him to feel the beauty of the "pursuit" of you.
Release the situation. React to his efforts and apply them yourself, but do not force things. If he really likes you, he will find a way to be around.
Although everyone deserves respect, men and women have different attitudes to what this means. Think about the conversations in which you talk about your day at work. Your man will inevitably intervene to propose solutions. On the other hand, you may not need him to solve your problems, you just want to talk about them.
When you tell him that you do not need his help, this may seem like a disrespect, even if this is the last thing you have in mind. Men often feel respected as love, but if you do not approve of what he does, how he dresses or why he reacts that way, it will be difficult for him to trust you. Accept him as he is, along with differences in male and female communication, and he will bask in the light of your respect.
3. Acceptance of his help
You are, without doubt, independent, self-confident and fully capable of taking care of yourself. However, this has absolutely nothing to allow your man to help you. We all love to feel our need, and so he can show his love through actions, not emotions.
It's not about being in trouble. But even when he offers to just carry your bags (even if they are not heavy), he expresses a desire to make you happy, make your life easier, be useful to you. In the old-fashioned sense, it is called chivalry. Enjoy it and let it do it.
4. Personal space
Traditionally, women tend to communicate with each other, discussing problems and having fun, while men like to retire to go about their business. This has nothing to do with not wanting to be with you.
The same applies to communicating with your friends. We are talking about his comrades, and not about his mistress. If you have experienced a state where a man does not want to let you out of his sight, you know what it is like to suffocate from his presence literally everywhere. In fact, this is one of the fastest ways to break a relationship. Give him a personal space.
5. Compliments and appreciation.
Perhaps a man will never ask you to praise him anymore, because he is afraid that it will sound like he needs to praise his ego. It is much more likely that he praises you all the time: you look beautiful, say something funny or make progress at work.
But he also needs confidence, and there is nothing wrong with praising his ego a little. In fact, compliments help to increase his confidence, and when they come from you, it will help him feel loved.
6. Sexual diversity
It is impossible to talk about what men want from women, without delving into sex. Sexy lingerie, different poses, hot foreplay or something new really inflame his passion. He will not want to ask for it, but he will want it, and it is also one of the best ways to create intimacy and maintain a vital spark in a relationship.
7. Take initiative
How would you feel if you always initiated contact with a man, be it messages, phone calls, kisses or sex? Men are also afraid of rejection, even in long-term relationships. For the most part, there is nothing wrong with that, but for your man, it's nice that sometimes you are the initiator.
In addition, damn sexy to be in the presence of a woman who is confident enough in herself.
8. Maintain spontaneity and passion.
A man likes when you have your own opinion, when you express what you like and what not, make a risky choice that brings you happiness.
He also likes to be interested in you, to be surprised at your spontaneous actions. This attitude means that you feel comfortable, have your own life and trust him enough to show it. He wants to admire you, so do not hide his passion, fear or love for singing in the soul. If he does not enjoy the present from you, then this is not the person.
9. Fully trust him
This is a strange contradiction, but if your man feels when you do not trust him, it will be difficult for him to believe you. Your trust is your recognition that he is a great guy.
To make negative conclusions, to be paranoid or to constantly doubt his intentions is offensive to those who are trying to earn your trust. He can just leave, just because you do not believe in him.
10. Be his friend
This means that you have to keep up-to-date, get off the diet and eat meat pie with him, organize beer competitions. It means to be on his side and accept him as he is, like a true friend.
Too often, even at the very beginning of a relationship, it is easy to fall into the trap of sympathy for a man, thinking that you simply change what you dislike. You do not change. Worse, you make him feel that something is wrong with him and that he cannot behave properly next to you. A true friend would never do that.
Something else? Well, dress like a hot nurse and bring him a beer - life hacking in life, although he may not have the courage to ask you about it.