Most people think that love needs to be found. However, this is not quite true. You can find someone who will be worthy of love. But love itself you will not find, wandering along the street. Love does not come even when you get acquainted with that one. Love comes later.
First love comes, then love, and after - the desire to be together forever. Sometimes, people do not understand the importance of each of these stages of love. You have to fall in love to be in love, and you have to be in love in order to fully devote yourself to someone and love him forever. There are no other quick ways.
However, the problem is that in some couples the relationship fails from the very beginning, in others the love breaks down over time. But there are those whose relationship does not lead them to the end. Such couples know: it takes time to develop, nurture and maintain love, and those who do not put enough effort to do so remain heartbroken. If you really want to live with your loved one all your life, you must make a clear decision to fight for your love. And at each stage, make the right moves.
Stage 1. Love
To meet that person is a magical event. Everyone knows how hard it is to find someone with whom it will be comfortable. And it is so beautiful not to be lonely anymore, not to go through life any more, not holding to someone's hand. It's great to know that you met someone you might fall in love with. And at this stage it is important to understand whether you are going to build your love further or not.
Stage 2. The feeling of love
This stage of love is the greatest teacher in life. At this stage, the excitement of love begins to subside. Butterflies in the stomach calm down. Of course, you still think about your soul mate every minute, you care about her and want to spend a lot of time together, but the passion that you felt at the beginning of the relationship is not so strong. You used to be so excited, and now you are just comfortable.
It is these psychological and physiological changes that most often scare people away. During this period, most people begin to doubt their choice: are they really with who they should be with, or maybe their feelings are only the effect of tactile sensations. They wonder if they even love their partner.
Many people want stability in all areas of their lives except love. They want love to turn them upside down every day. But love does not work that way, love can be quiet.
Stage 3. True Love
Those people who have overcome doubts and uncertainty in their choice and stayed with their chosen one are ready to experience true love. This love, which is able to pass through the most difficult life tests.
People at this stage understand that love is a choice, that love only diminishes when we allow it to be done. It disappears when we cease to be aware of our choice in love.
Up to this point, we mistakenly believe that love should make our lives easier - that meeting the right person is enough to make us happy. But in fact, this is not the case at all. Love requires work, it requires conscious effort and devotion. The one who will fight for love will be happy.