There is nothing worse than a relationship that is mired in everyday problems. This kills all passion and love, and respect for each other is replaced by constant irritation. How to get rid of the problems that each second family suffers from and make their relationship really happy?
Separate responsibilities at home
Half of the problems in the pair - because of the banal way of life. Who takes out the garbage, who washes the dishes, whose turn to do the cleaning. The best solution is to do it together. First, it is faster. Secondly, nicer. Finally, cleaning can turn into a real family ritual, if you approach it with imagination. For example, you can find a lot of interesting things in your apartment if you decide to bust at last the mezzanine.
Respect each other's interests
If your man loves the bike, then why don't you let him do what he loves? In return, he will stop grumbling about paints scattered everywhere, if you, for example, are fond of drawing. Yes, the bike is dangerous, but did he survive somehow before your acquaintance? And paranoia is the last thing to do in this life.
Spend time together
Of course, you are angry with him, that he again went to his friends to play football, and you are bored. He, too, is bored when you meet with friends. Take time to relax together, and you probably can easily relate to each other's entertainment. For example, go to the cinema every Friday, or to the theater on Sundays. Joint dinners in the restaurant, too, has not been canceled.
Allocate the budget correctly
Very often, partners quarrel over money. This is a solvable problem: sound financial planning and a separate budget will help to reduce quarrels to a minimum. Share who pays for what, based on the income of each of you, and leave the amount of money that you can spend at your discretion.
If you do not have enough money, and only the husband works in the family, there is nothing wrong with helping your loved one. Get a job or at least a side job, and half of the problems will be eliminated by themselves.