Men have their own opinions about what the relationship should be. Only if your novel matches them, a decent man will remain in your life for a long time, if not forever. We asked the men and made a rating of what is important for the representatives of the stronger sex.
It is very difficult to build a relationship with a person who does not understand you. So men also can not. Worst of all, that many women not only do not understand, but simply do not want to understand them, and this is expressed even in the most simple, everyday things. Why doesn't he want to go shopping with her after work in the evening? Maybe because the second day does not sleep, working on a complex project, and finally wants to rest?
When partners do not respect each other, the relationship simply has no future. We wrote a lot on the topic that a man must respect a woman, and many ladies hold this opinion. But at the same time there are women who forget that a man must also be respected. He is not at all a walking mechanism for solving all your problems and making money.
Another very common problem, characteristic for women, is no less than for men - ladies tend to turn a man into their own property, controlling his actions from and to. No normal man will tolerate this. He does not want to turn into my mom's submissive son - and you also probably do not want.
We all make mistakes and pay for them. Men are not an exception, but sometimes they are judged really harshly (we note that, of course, we are not talking about treason - this is already a serious betrayal), noting that he is a “man”. A man, of course, wants to be a superhero for you, but still he is also a living person.
The stereotype that men do not need anything, except for constant rest on the couch, at odds with reality. There are no less ambitious men than women, and they want their partner to match them.