Good men are found on our way of life more often than unworthy, who do not deserve our attention. Unfortunately, sometimes we come across representatives of the male sex, which men can be called a stretch. How to determine this at a very early stage of the relationship, so as not to suffer later? If your man does something of these things, you should take a good look at him and discuss the situation with him.
It violates your personal space.
He wonders where and with whom you are going, and when you return - not because he cares about you at all. Because when people are worried, they do not question everything thoroughly, with the slightest details, and do not require you to come at 11 o'clock and not a minute later. This is a real violation of your personal territory, and there is no smell of love here.
He criticizes your appearance.
He does not like your hairstyle, and he demands that you change it. Yes, and your nose does not like. On the plastic, he, however, does not insist - too expensive. This begs the question, why does he meet with you then? A decent man will not allow himself to do this, because he knows how important appearance is for women.
He does not communicate with you as equals
If your man is one of those who consider themselves better because of their belonging to the male sex, it’s better to run right away. He will never treat you as an equal person, and your opinion will cost him nothing.
He avoids important conversations.
You want to talk to him, but he, as a child, constantly finds excuses, or even runs away from home? This is the first sign that it is not serious in itself, or it is not serious about you (and it is possible that both). Why do you need such a man?
He uses violence, physical or moral
This is clearly unacceptable, in whatever form is used. Whether he inclines you to sex, raises his hand to you in anger or blackmails - do not justify it, then it will only get worse.