Many men are selfish and value their comfort very much. The care, support and love with which you provide them, they really need. And therefore, even if they are not in love with a woman, they will keep her with them as an option, just in case, while they themselves will live their life and look for better options on the side.
Such men should be immediately recognized and broken up with them, because you deserve a different attitude — so that you are treated not as an option, but as a priority and goal. Therefore, carefully study the symptoms described below, and run away from men who do not appreciate you.
Now and then he leaves you and then returns, but not for long again.
He does this to check on you and make sure that you have not forgotten about him and that his “emergency exit” is in place. He knows how to melt your heart, and skillfully twists you as he wishes.
He happens to be very close with you for a while, but then he leaves.
It seems that you are together, but it seems not. His calendar is scheduled for the next week or two, but then he returns with incredible gestures of affection and love, from which you find it difficult to turn away.
He just broke up with the ex when you met
Not a fact, but it is possible that you for him - the airbag. After breaking with the former, his self-esteem is most likely offended, and he immediately finds safety net and a new source of self-affirmation and comfort in the form of you. Be careful: perhaps he will immediately return to the former, call her back.
He flirts with you, but selectively
He is flirting with you because he wants to keep the opportunity to be with you and to control you. Most often, everything happens with you when he wants it, and not you, and you should fit into his schedule.
His actions and his words do not match.
Does he promise to arrange a romantic dinner for you, or go with you to rest, but does not fulfill his promise? So he is trying to control you in his own words and just pulls time.
He limits you
He is looking for options for himself, but absolutely does not want you to have someone besides him on the horizon, because then he will lose you as an option. He wants to make sure you are focused on him.
He gives you false hope
He deliberately attracts you with loud statements and high promises. He knows that he will not be able to keep them, but he does not intend to: it is enough for him to win time with his promises. He will keep you with him as much as he needs.