You hide your virtues
If you think that men do not like smart women, think again. Any normal man wants to see next to a confident, intelligent, happy woman with life. Yes, they also want to talk with us about life, work, politics, culture, about anything, and not just look at the beautiful dress and seductive lips.
The meaning of dating is to find someone with whom you will be comfortable, and not someone you will like.
Want to spend your life with a man who does not appreciate your mind (or any other quality of yours)? After all, if he does not appreciate you for who you are, this relationship is not real. You just can not be yourself next to him.
We do not mean only sex, although it too.
Pretense is a game that most men don't want to play. He does not want to listen to your lies, and therefore find out that all this was just in order to please him.
You don't have to pretend that you agree with him in everything to make an impression. People have different views and opinions, and this is normal. Or do you want fake relationships in which everyone pretends? As a rule, such relationships do not last long and do not lead to anything good.
You make yourself a drama queen
Scold on every, even the most insignificant, occasion? Gossiping about others to look better on their background? Build yourself, the heroine, the victim of the villain to attract attention? Then we have bad news - men can't stand the drama.
Of course, fascinated by you, he may not notice how you love to dramatize everything. However, it will definitely annoy him when you go from dating to a serious relationship. And when he reaches the boiling point, the relationship just ends.
You constantly whine and complain
The reason for which you do not develop relationships, may be hiding in the absence of the necessary communication skills. Instead of complaining about what you do not want, better think about what you want.
By focusing on your desires, you get the most out of relationships. Men love to fulfill our desires and despair when, despite all their efforts, we continue to complain and whine.
Happy people attract happy and contented people. You want to meet such a man?
You act like a man
Of course, in each person two beginnings are combined: male and female. In certain situations, one can prevail over the other and vice versa. But, if you want to see a strong man next to you, moderate your masculinity, otherwise you will certainly have to fight for domination.
In addition, when a woman behaves feminine (sorry for the pun), she is more likely to meet a loving man.