As you know, many relationships are crumbling on the ground of misunderstanding, quarrels and problems in communicating with each other. Therefore, it is so important that the couple have a warm, productive and respectful communication. And on this need to work.
Here are 4 negative communication habits that harm your relationship.
You burst into anger
Anger is a normal emotion, and we all experience it at one time or another. But the fact that we clothe all our thoughts with anger turns this emotion into a serious obstacle to healthy communication.
After all, the dialogue is aimed at solving the problem. And what do you think, if you shout at another person and show your aggression, will he feel love and a desire to change and establish relations with you? Most likely no.
So remember that your goal is not to anger, but to achieve a result. Therefore, before you say something in the hearts, take a couple of deep breaths.
You treat your man with contempt
Sarcasm, ridicule, rolling eyes - all this is a form of disrespect to the interlocutor. Contempt during a conversation with your loved one poisons your relationship. It is almost impossible to solve a problem when your man receives a clear message that you treat him lightly and put yourself above him. Ultimately, this leads to a new conflict, and not to reconciliation.
You avoid talking
You are afraid that the result to which communication will lead will be negative, and you decide to live with unresolved problems rather than go into a conversation. In this case, you should overcome fear and look at the problem face to face.
You blame your man for everything
This only hinders the denouement of your conflict and, by and large, unfairly on your part. Even if your companion is to blame, do not try to blame or humiliate him - after all, your goal is not this, but to figure out how to solve the problem. Try to formulate your objections softer, for example, like this: “Perhaps you are right. But let's look at the situation from the other side. ” So you show your soul mate that you are configured to constructive communication without caustic criticism and clarify the relationship.