Since women are creatures much more emotional than men, tears are a familiar part of our lives. And this is not at all like men who hate, and even are afraid of female tears. You must have come across the fact that a man is ready for anything at all, so long as you finally stop crying. Women's tears are really unpleasant for them. Why?
Tears - a way to manipulate
A man can not take, and burst into tears in response, as you do. And besides, for him, female tears are a sign of your weakness and helplessness. He wants only one thing - so that you stop crying, and for the sake of that he is ready for anything. But if he suspects that tears are constantly used against him as a tool for manipulation, this may cause him uncontrollable aggression.
Tears and hysteria for him are one and the same
Since men are much more restrained in their emotions than we are, unexpected tears seem to them the most real hysteria. Too frequent tantrums, in turn, mean, in their opinion, excessive nervousness, which men do not like at all. Who likes his girlfriend - hysterical.
He feels a special responsibility.
He is a man, which means that he is responsible for the harmony in the family, for the whole situation as a whole, and for you as well. At least, this is the setting given by the majority of boys in our country. It is from here - the fear that something will not go according to plan. And women's tears - this is just completely out of plan. Are you crying So, he failed, could not protect you from something, and in general the balance is broken. Even if the cause of your tears is just a broken nail.
He feels guilty
Men think that if you cry, then he is to blame. And then he begins to blame himself first for this, and then you, which, as a rule, only aggravates the situation. And the thing is - in his helplessness. Unlike you, he cannot even cry - it is not like a man.
They just annoy him
He does not know what to do with this, and what you want from him. He is sure that you invented it all for a reason, and you have one goal - to make him feel guilty. And he, of course, does not want this at all.