Trust is the most wonderful feeling in a relationship. Nothing gives such security as a feeling of confidence in his man. Unfortunately, a man does not always justify the trust that you have in him. It is no secret that many men cheat on their women and prefer to hide the fact of adultery or even to be in parallel relations for a long time.
To put up with it or not is the personal file of every woman, just like the right to know about it. If you have suspicions that bother you, then try one of these techniques.
Provoke a situation of recognition
Try bluffing to try to play on his sense of fear of exposure. For example, you can start a conversation about what your friend thought that the other day she saw him in the company of another woman, and that was just when he was late at work. But do not specify neither the time nor the place where it was. Ask him who was this woman.
There are several options for further developments. A liar can become nervous, emotionally responsive, zealously excuse or try to find out who this friend is when she could see him. But the most revealing will be another option. A traitor, out of fear of being caught, in order to cover himself, will most likely come up with some decent status for his companion: sister, colleague, aunt of a friend. But you know that you invented this woman, and then, as they say, draw your own conclusions.
Try to spy
Not the most worthy occupation, of course, but when doubts prevail and there is no hope for frankness on the part of a man, many women decide to follow them. They check his car for hair or the smell of perfume; they are trying to trace a man unnoticed.
You can use social networks. Create a page on behalf of a woman who could please your man, and try to get to know him. If you succeed in this, then first try to find out from him in the correspondence, how he relates to treason in general, if he is not against having an affair. In case of an unfavorable outcome - make an appointment at which and expose him.
Yet a more civilized way of finding out the truth is a frank conversation. If you have these suspicions, then, most likely, not everything goes well in your relationship. The problems in the pair are always to blame both.
Start from afar. Discuss what worries you, ask about what worries him. After that, tell him about your suspicions, say that it hurts you, torments you and you want to know the truth. Do not demand an immediate answer, perhaps a man needs time to digest the information and decide to tell you everything.
So, there are a lot of ways to check a man’s loyalty, from the absurd to the most sophisticated. However, before you decide to use them, ask yourself if you are ready to learn the truth and what you will do if the answers turn out to be not what you would like. If you firmly believe that you are ready for the truth, then act.