How to understand who is in front of you, focusing on gestures and behavior during a conversation? Just look at the interlocutor more closely, because there are little things that can give him literally headlong. What you should pay attention in the first place?
Look at how a person is sitting or standing. If he crosses his arms on his chest, shifts his legs (if it is a man) and somehow tries to take as little space as possible, to become more imperceptible, this clearly signals a person’s insecurity in himself. In addition, it is possible that for some reason he is simply uncomfortable in your society.
Direct eye contact
If a man (or woman) looks you straight in the eyes while talking, does not look away and answers your phrases with a calm smile, this indicates that you are a calm, confident person. He does not seek to impress you by presenting himself as he is.
The interlocutor constantly pulls his clothes, twists a strand of hair or a button in his hands, rearranges objects on the table and does not know where to put his hands, most likely you are dealing with a nervous or even slightly unbalanced person. In addition, these signs may indicate that a person is in a depressed mood and for some reason very nervous.
Excessive attention to appearance
He is literally fixated on himself and on how he looks. Straightens the clock, looks in the mirror or all sorts of reflections, smoothes the hair. most likely, there are places to be connected with both appearance and other areas of life.