Even the strongest and strongest relationships can crack. What prevents you from living long and happily in peace and harmony for up to a hundred years? We understand!
1. Not listening skills
You seem to be listening to what your partner tells you, but, at the same time, you are simultaneously browsing the news on the Internet or in your thoughts. And then quarrels, offenses and accusations of devil-may-care attitude begin. Respect your other half - know how to hear what he wants to convey to you.
2. Distribution of advice
Yes, valuable advice is, of course, useful and healthy, but only when you are really asked for it. Do not turn into an abstruse psychologist and do not learn how to live. It is possible that your partner does not need this, and your image of a know-it-all only annoys him.
3. Vain promises
Well, this is the golden rule: promised - do it. Not sure what you can not do - do not promise at all. Vain promises very quickly reduce the level of trust in the pair, so do not scatter them.
4. Leave and not warn
Be sure to put your other half on when you are going somewhere to leave. And do it not 5 minutes before the release, but preferably at least a couple of days. So you will avoid unnecessary suspicion and resentment.
5. Reluctance to discuss family finances.
If you are a real family and really close to each other, the question of money should be the subject of general discussion and planning. Well, how else? After all, you and your partner both invest your share in the family budget, therefore, you should discuss issues of purchases, payment of bills and services, savings. If each of you has your own money and you pay solely for yourself - it's time to think, are you really so close? ...
6. Dodging towards his relatives and friends
You should not try by all means to make a positive impression on all friends and relatives without exception. Firstly, no one loves the toadies, and secondly, be what you are, so people will appreciate and respect you more.
7. Intimacy when I don't want to.
Do not overstep yourself and perform marital debt, if now you have absolutely no desire. Neither you nor your partner will get any pleasure from it, everything will be strained, monotonous and boring, you will get annoyed at the slightest occasion and think about how soon it would all end.
8. Go to bed without reconciling
Even our great-great-grandmothers said that falling asleep, having quarreled, is impossible in any case! No matter how you are offended at each other, find the words to step over the differences, and even better, press yourself to your loved one, hug him tightly and whisper in your ear how much you love him.
9. Mention divorce in quarrels.
This is a bad tactic - in times of conflict intimidate with divorce. This is a very serious thing in the heat of the rush to her and intimidate, as punished a child with a lack of sweet. And in the end, then your partner will begin to perceive your words about divorce as another bzik, which is not even worth paying attention to.
10. Give each other money
Well, it's just disrespect and scornful attitude: I'm not so interested in you, your desires and preferences, that I will just give you money. That's why you and close people to make pleasant with gifts, given the character, features and characteristics of your partner. After all, who, if not you, knows him best?