A woman should be weaker than a man, possess a certain fragility and defenselessness. Men themselves would prefer that you were just that. However, an infantile young lady who performs a purely decorative function in a relationship is not at all what most of them would like to see. They need a friend, companion of life, and not an overgrown child. How to find out that infantilism is about you?
You do not know what your business life and do not aspire to anything
If you work, it is solely for the sake of money, doing the work that anyone can do if they wish. You do not possess or have any particular professional skills.
Do you think that a woman should be married to a man
That is why the purpose of your life is the desire to find a sufficiently wealthy man with whom you can live in comfort. However, not all modern men share this opinion. And they are looking for the one that is able to provide for itself if necessary.
You can not do anything at home
Many women are not able not only to earn money, but also to cook and clean. As we have mentioned more than once, a woman is not at all obliged to farm alone (at least, if she is also busy with work). However, being able to cook yourself a meal on your own or to put things in order at home is the usual skills of every woman (and even a man would be nice to have them).
You cannot make decisions by yourself.
The slightest nonstandard situation, and you are instantly lost, do not know what to do, and wait for the decision to be taken for you. This is not only infantile, but also causes irritation from the man and your loved ones, because next you want to have a person who knows exactly what he wants.
You do not know how to insist on their own opinion
This feature is not good for you. Because of this, you lose your individuality and give other people the opportunity to lead you and your life. If you allow it, this behavior can easily lead you to frustration in the relationship and in your loved one.