The main thing in life, as many believe, is to find a permanent job, a relationship, buy a house and raise children. In principle, nothing like that, if not for one thing, but - stability is considered to be the main marker by which happiness is determined. However, this is not really the case.
Stability creates a routine
And the routine is boredom. Our life requires full impressions, changes, bright emotions and moments. And the routine that stability leads to destroys relationships and leads you to depression and depression.
Because of the stability you lose the skill to act.
In order not to get lost in a difficult situation, you must constantly be ready to act. When you live in stability, you get used to the usual flow of life and, if necessary, you can no longer gather strength to bring life in order if something suddenly goes wrong.
Stability prevents you from enjoying life
Getting used to something, we stop getting pleasure from it. Sooner or later it will bother you and begin to seem bland and tasteless. You must constantly fill your life with impressions and emotions, constantly grow and try something new. And then you can feel its taste to the full.