Recently, many often ask the question: "What makes a woman a woman?". Most naively begin to list dresses, high heels, long hair, cosmetics and seductive lingerie. But this is not the case, so tinsel, which, of course, adds to the image of femininity, but only outside. And what makes a woman a woman from the inside? It is the right to have a choice. When a woman loses this right, she turns into a slave with extinct eyes, which, like a shadow, silently follows her man.
I remembered well the words of one of my acquaintances when his wife was outraged that he was looking at pretty girls on the street without a twinge of conscience. To which he replied: “If I love you, this does not mean that I do not have the right to look at someone else.” Reasonable.
Often, when meeting a man in her life, a woman immediately gives him and know and shows in all sorts of ways - I am yours, I am no longer a draw, I entirely belong only to you. This is the biggest mistake. You should have the opportunity and the full right to non-binding flirting, to the admiring glances of other men, to flirting smiles. A woman should feel that she is admired by those around her, that she likes other people - this is a powerful source of confidence. This is by no means a betrayal - it is female energy, female karma.
And immediately putting a stigma on themselves and stating to the man that only you have the right to me, the woman closes herself in a cage and slowly withers. He suffers resentment, quarrels, humiliation and even beatings - after all, she is his, and only he has the right to do with her whatever he pleases.
Often it takes a lot of time. It happens even years, and sometimes a whole life. And we are constantly tolerating something, looking for excuses for this, exposing ourselves guilty and sacrificing. But why? Who needs these sacrifices? After all, in fact, everything is much simpler: you just need to get out of the house and meet someone who will give you a choice.