Do you feel that your man is moving away from you? Do not panic - this can happen in any relationship and, most importantly, you can fix it. Here are 5 things to help you do this.
Give him some space.
When a man moves away from you, there is a great temptation to grab him tighter and squeeze him in a vise - to stifle attention and demands to be with you.
So, this is not worth doing. It is much more correct to give a man freedom and time - to understand himself and his feelings. So he would rather miss you and appreciate you.
Keep being yourself
Many women, when their man begins to drift away from them, change themselves and their habits to please their man. But that doesn't work like that.
If your man withdraws, it is important that you remain yourself. You are the one with whom your man once fell in love. He does not want to fall in love with a second-rate version of you that satisfies all his whims.
So keep being strong and independent. And change only for the better.
Do not take everything personally
Men leave women for different reasons. Sometimes it is really associated with dissatisfaction with a woman. But it also happens that this happens for purely personal reasons.
Unfortunately, most women blame themselves for the fact that a man is removed from them, and begin to get men with constant questions about how and what they should do to fix everything.
In the meantime, nothing repels men like an overly emotional, tenacious and desperate woman who wants to "talk about an important issue."
So, if your man pulls away from you, ask him once directly if this is directly related to you. If he answers yes, then you can start working on the relationship with him.
But if a man makes it clear to you that it’s not about you, let him go. Let him figure out for yourself. And when he finds out, he will come back to you. After all, your independence and harmony with yourself will make you a woman, to which a man wants to return.
Rate whether you are happy in a relationship
It is difficult to do when you are running after a man, trying to keep him. Are you sure the game is worth the candle? Do you feel loved and happy? Do you appreciate?
Remember, you deserve the best, and if you are really happy with a man, then try to do everything for the sake of your relationship, otherwise you better leave first.
Keep living your life
Do not put your life (interests, friends, family, work) into the background to live for the return of the man. If a man moves away, it is even more important that you continue to live your life.
Be the world to which a man wants to return, and not the application of his own life, from which he wants to get rid
Remember, one-sided and sacrificial relationships are not healthy relationships.