Many women complain that modern men have become very childish and absolutely not independent. It seems to be facing an adult healthy forehead, and it behaves at the level of a ninth-grader with difficult puberty. Why does a strong half of humanity turn into gentle princesses, and what to do about it?
He is looking for the guilty
And leads the undeniable theory that all the problems come from childhood. In his immaturity, he blames his parents, who overprotected him, experienced him, did not give room for independence and in every way suppressed him with his authority. Of course, this explanation is the simplest - to be offended by the whole world and build up a child who was not allowed to walk in the yard without supervision. The accusation is the most stupid way to justify yourself, especially when it is done by an adult man.
He thinks everyone should
Parents should help him until his old age, the state should give a good job, high salary and benefits, the neighbors should provide peace and quiet, and the beloved woman should meet in the evenings with a four-course dinner and certainly in a good mood. He sincerely does not understand that in this world everything needs to be achieved by himself, at least for a man for sure. It should be noted that among such infantils there are often gigolos, who live at the expense of the woman. And at the same time, they consider this to be absolutely normal - after all, they all should.
He despises those who are not lucky in life
He looks with disdain at those who earn little — what are you so feeble, go and work. He looks askance at people with health problems - you yourself have brought yourself to this state, you should have thought before. He loves to discuss the appearance of people, inventing insulting nicknames for them and condemning them for not looking like supermodels. At the same time, he considers himself an ideal, who with one click of his fingers was able to achieve everything, and now, all so successful, has every right, sitting on a throne, to despise the rest.
He disclaims all responsibility
Yes, he just does not take over. And if he takes and does not live up to expectations, he immediately looks for those to whom the reasons for his failures can be blamed. He never admits that he has blundered or made a mistake, he will simply transfer the arrows to anyone or anything - to bad weather, not a good day, bad mood, circumstances or to “bad” people around.
What to do with it?
And nothing. There is absolutely nothing to do. And it makes no sense to look for someone who is right and who is to blame, because anyway, no one can be found. A person becomes what he does himself and what he wants to be, and if there is no desire to change, then one should not hope that everything will be different. The best advice in such a situation is to choose men more carefully, and immediately try to discern a little boy under the guise of a nice and charming guy.