For most women, cheating a man becomes a real blow. It seems better not to know about it at all. And that is how it often happens, because men, changing their wife, often remain in the family. Why do they do it and why not go to his mistress?
I'm sorry for the time spent
Spent on creating a family, of course. He put a lot of effort, got housing, and arranged in his family everything as it should. Now, if he starts a new relationship with his mistress, you have to start all over again. Few men are ready for this.
They are kept by children
If a man in a marriage has children, this will be a good reason to save the family. Of course, in this situation, his betrayal may affect the relationship with his wife, but he will try to do everything so that the family does not fall apart.
They are grateful to his wife
Men for the most part are not at all unfeeling. And the fact that a woman has done a lot for them is a good reason to feel gratitude towards her.
Treason is just a fleeting affair.
If he made a girlfriend to brighten up everyday life and satisfy his sexual desires, why would he build a family with her? No matter how cynical it may sound, but most of the men who give birth to their mistresses have no plans to have any serious relations with her afterwards.
Leaving the family seems to them a great shock.
It also happens that a man is really in love with another woman. But at the same time, he got used to his wife, with whom he had been living for a long time, and it seems to him a real problem to leave her. This situation, unfortunately, lasts for years, delivering torment to three people at once.