There are four key signs that your relationship has ended or is on its way to failure. In this case, the first thing to do is to stop and ask yourself how your relationship “feels” now? Do you wake up every morning with gratitude for sharing your life with someone who is perfect for you? Or do you wake up wondering: “When did things go wrong?”
Even if you only have small doubts about your unfortunate relationship, it helps to take a step back and ask if the following four signs begin to appear. If yes, then this does not necessarily mean the end, but some things need to be corrected before it is really too late.
1. You feel upset
Do you feel more and more disappointed with your man?
Disappointment is a feeling associated with a lack of goal achievement. In terms of relationships, this can manifest itself when two people have different or competing goals.
If both of you want different things, you will find your paths diverge, then frustration will gradually begin. Whatever your relationship, it is important that both of you go towards a common goal.
Consider frustration a sign that something is wrong in your relationship, and use it to change something. If you allow yourself to succumb to frustration, you can lose confidence in yourself and your relationship.
2. You are often angry
If your attempts to achieve common goals (or personal goals) are constantly nullified, frustration often turns into anger. The goal may be a simple thing, for example, walking a dog before it rains. But if other plans for the day were thwarted, and this simple task was also not fulfilled, this is all that is needed for a flash of anger.
Problems arise in a relationship when several disappointments overlap. Although anger can help motivate us to change, it most often leads to appalling behavior.
3. You are not confident
If you have experienced excessive anger in your relationship (on the part of the man or towards him), you will gradually begin to repel him. You are moving away from confrontation and losing self-confidence. You may have a feeling of insecurity, jealousy, paranoia, and you will be more and more out of control.
A key step here is rethinking goals and regaining control over oneself. “What do I want? How can I achieve this? ”- questions to ask yourself here and now.
4. You feel lonely
You probably stopped being close to each other. You may even have stopped talking to each other.
It is extremely important to solve the problem in your relationship now. Deal with her and move forward. Many couples suffer from loneliness to such an extent that even when they are in the same room together, they both feel completely alone.
If you have reached the stage of loneliness, it may be too late for your relationship to come alive again. The important thing is that you decide to act rather than let loneliness overwhelm you.
These signs can help you determine if your relationship is on its way to collapse. But no matter where you are on this path, it is absolutely and completely possible to fix some things and turn your relationship back on track before it is too late. For others, it may just be a warning signal that says: "Hey, in this relationship, you will not be happy, it's time to leave."