Those who say that there are no conflicts in loving couples are fundamentally wrong. There is no harmonious relationship in which people would not figure out the relationship. Well, the result, in turn, depends on how well they do it. How to swear that conflicts benefit?
Less words makes more sense
Empty insults, unpleasant things that were said to in a temper, which often have nothing to do with reality — all of this can ruin your mood and microclimate in the family for a long time. However, if something does not suit you, it also does not make sense to keep in yourself. All your claims must be substantiated, concise and to the point. Try not to speak in a raised voice, and it will be much easier for the partner to understand what you want from him.
Do not swear in a bad mood
Finding out something about the case in such a state is completely useless. Each of you most wants to hurt your opponent as much as possible, and the truth in such disputes, of course, is not. When emotions are boiling in you, try to abstract. During this time, you can once again weigh all your claims and understand which of them really makes sense to discuss. Otherwise, you break a lot of wood and you will be guilty.
Do not tear anger on his beloved
Conflicts of this kind are clearly pernicious. We all have bad days, but does your loved one deserve to have all your aggression on a completely unconnected subject go to him? Third-party problems should not be an impetus to the solution of family issues.
Talk about things that don't suit you right away
The longer you accumulate hurt feelings, the stronger they become. You become more and more annoyed, and you are guided by the desire not to get to the truth, but to throw off your anger and emotions on a man. Similar effect of a snowball has not brought any benefit to anyone, moreover, it is better to solve a small problem in a relationship in time than to understand a whole bunch of resentment after a while. Usually this does not pass without a trace.
Do not draw anyone into your conflicts.
He who said that rubbish from the hut should not be taken out was infinitely right. By this, you both offend your partner, and spoil the attitude of others towards him, and get a biased assessment of the situation. Why do you need it? You do not call the third person in your bed, and that's not worth it in conflicts either. You are not in the ring and you do not need judges.