Self-esteem, pride and importance - this, of course, is good, but, like everyone, in moderation. If you have become too much in the direction of boasting and overconfidence, then it’s time to check yourself by these 8 signs.
1. You put your interests first
You simply forget that people who are close to you may also have their own desires and preferences. You only think about yourself and you want your needs to be fulfilled first. By doing this you make very unpleasantly close people, and with all your appearance you show that you are indifferent to them.
2. You take a hurt position
You are offended by everyone and everyone - on any word and occasion, even the most insignificant. Sometimes you yourself can not understand the reasons for your grievances, because this is done in order to manipulate the feelings of other people, make them feel guilty, and achieve what you want.
3. You do not say thank you
Any help you take for granted, not even paying attention to it and not thanks. Think, quite possibly, the next time you no longer want to go forward.
4. You do not notice the emotions of other people.
Empathy and understanding of the feelings and emotions of others are deeply alien to you, because you are completely immersed in yourself. You are not able to empathize and comfort, but, nevertheless, require it from others in relation to yourself.
5. You want to be praised.
What you yourself do is very valuable and significant for you, especially if it relates to other people. You expect it to be noticed, appreciated and definitely praised, like a small child. If this does not happen, you are very offended.
6. You want everyone to do what you want only
You adore planning and organizing, but given that everyone must unconditionally agree to your proposals. You impose your desires and preferences on people, believing that everyone must obey you.
7. You need attention
People near you should be absorbed solely by your person. You should be noticed, loved and admired, you should spend time with you and not waste it on anything else. You are very painful if your loved one has any other life or interests besides you.
8. You are afraid of loneliness
Fear of being alone binds you hand and foot. This condition leads you into a stupor, makes you panic, worry and nervous. All this happens because you are too dependent on close people who are close by, and as soon as they disappear from your field of vision, the soil immediately disappears from under your feet.