Parting is a difficult moment in life that everyone, as a rule, experienced. It is not necessary that the reasons for parting lay in the absence of love, it also happens that feelings and emotions overrun, but life principles or goals for the future can be so different that it is easier to finish everything. One way or another, people experience the days after breaking up in different ways, this is a state of shock for the organism, which you have to either wait or try to relieve.
For women, the time after breaking up includes 3 things:
1. Friends, interesting trips, going to cafes and restaurants, and, of course, regular photos in all social networks, so that he knows that now you have the best time in life.
2. Large stocks of wine and tons of photo albums, so lonely evenings to revise it several times and romanticize the relationship.
3. And, of course, minute weakness, when the previous points lose their power and you start to write to him about how you miss.
How long this will continue depends only on yourself and on how strong the relationship was. Such a ritual of “bringing yourself back to life” is universal for all women. Few would argue that parting in women is like the awakening of a good old alcoholic who gets drunk every day, has fun and starts allowing himself strange things under the pretext that time is hard now, so everything is possible.
Suppose that with women everything is clear, but how do men endure separation? And now is the time to uncover this terrible secret. Many are sure that men are not much different from women: they also drink, miss and experience the first weeks in complete prostration, but is this really so?
They do not attack all social networks so strongly in order to show their “new” life, but believe me, they react violently to yours. They will need to know what you are doing and how you spend your time, but they will not submit it to your mind. Of course, they will view your stories on Instagram, but will never again like your selfies. I think it's all about wounded pride. They know that you are a hot little thing, but they prefer to pretend that you suddenly become ugly after parting. It helps their fragile ego.
They will be actively looking for a new, preferably affordable, girls. Again, this is due to the fragile ego. It is easier to get distracted with a new one, perhaps a younger girl to assert herself than to understand that they have lost someone who is real and amazing. Even if the gap occurred for legitimate reasons, men are more likely to pretend that they have never cared for this relationship than to deal with the sadness that they feel so much. In the end, they are people too, but they do not receive such privileges as women in parting.
Agree, it is not brutal to drink wine, look at old photos and cry for each song Adele. Thus, their default motto is “move on,” even if deep down it is only a disguise of their true feelings.
And here, the most important and interesting of all, the point is alcohol. Men also get drunk, and much more so than women, and they also begin to call and write in the same way, but there is one nuance. If women write this, because she had this thought in her head all day and she really thought about you, then men have it at the level of instincts. He writes to satisfy his physical needs, but this does not mean at all that he really does not miss, but he would never admit it. The distinguishing feature is that he does not want to write about it the next day or discuss it by phone, he will forget about it as quickly as he remembered, but it is a pity that only until next weekend.
Here is the whole guide to the mysterious world of partings, but there is no anomaly in it, which means it is easier to survive than it seems at first glance.