What does a woman need to feel desirable and interesting? Of course, the attention of men. However, some ladies devalue this desire, believing that all that is needed from a woman to a man is only sex. But can a man's attachment exist separately, without sex?
Why does a man want a woman he likes
Instincts make a man want a woman, and only then he connects the brain and begins to rationally assess her capabilities as a potential wife. However, his body also analyzes. For example, he likes large breasts for a reason, but because it will be easier for such a woman to feed a baby than a thin and flat one. A lush thighs have sexual attractiveness, as you might guess, due to the fact that this feature of the body will greatly facilitate the birth of children.
However, do not underestimate the chemistry, what makes a man want exactly the woman he likes. If it is located towards her, then she begins to feel tenderness and warmth towards her. He wants to touch her, stroke her skin and hair, kiss her. Sex is a kind of culmination, at such moments the partners become really close, they feel each other completely. This is a natural process due to instincts.
Sex or love - what should be first?
Today, moral norms have become very different compared to those that were a couple of decades ago. Thanks to the media and the arts, sex is no longer considered shameful, and has become available to almost everyone.
To have sex, you no longer need to get married or even have a permanent partner. But will it bring you pleasure?
According to sexologists, most women are not able to achieve relaxation, making love with an unfamiliar partner. In addition, very many not enough and simple sympathy. Women are not without reason looking for a serious and ongoing relationship, it really matters to them.
Men are a little different. The fact is that they can perceive sex and relationships almost separately from each other. In other words, if the average man wants sex, he will find a temporary partner. But many people prefer to have a permanent girl who will be not only a mistress, but also a life partner.
Contrary to stereotypes, men do not always want sex. He may also be uncomfortable, he may be tired at work, face some difficulties in life or not want a particular woman. Relationship routine is also a rather serious problem - he may even have a desire to make love in general.
When should be sex in a relationship?
Psychologists agree on one thing - if you want a serious relationship from a man, then you should not begin your affair with sex. In addition, it will also benefit your future intimate relationships. The better you get to know him, the better the sex will be, and both of you will be able to achieve relaxation.
How to understand that a man wants you?
To understand what are the signs of attention of men, desire or ordinary politeness, is not always so easy. What signs exactly indicate that he wants you?
- Constant touches: he has no reason, but he still often touches you, your hair, straightens clothes. This suggests that he would not mind having sex with you.
- Strange compliments: if he thinks thoughtfully about how nice it smells from you, it clearly does not draw on duty courtesy.
- Attention to your clothes: he will not be able to ignore your short skirt or tight-fitting dress, and will definitely notice that it suits you very much.
- Permanent smile: he smiles all the time, talking to you. It's not that he is not smart enough, he just likes you very much.
- The desire to take care of you: he wants to protect you from the whole world and help you cope with your problems. On this his instincts move - as a man, he must protect his woman.
- Domestic espionage: of course, he will not hang a bug. But your profiles in social networks will certainly examine the length and breadth. And ask all your friends about what you love, and how you treat him personally.
If you notice any of these men familiar signs, he will definitely not mind to get to know you better.