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17 things that a man really wants in a woman, not those he talks about


Here it is, a puzzle. Men often confess what traits they want to see in their chosen ones in the hope that women will hear them. But the paradox is that in fact they imply a completely different, expressing their desires. It is so different that even an intelligent woman has all the chances to “break brains” when she is looking for meaning.

Here are 17 things that, according to men, they want to see in a girl, and that, and what they really want:

1. They say: “I just need one who knows what she wants in life.”

What they really want: “I just need one that knows what it wants in life, but mainly because I have no idea what I myself want in life.”

2. They say: "I want to build a serious relationship with a decent girl."

What they really want: “I want to build a serious relationship with a decent girl, but I want her to love physical closeness as much as a cheeky girl.”

3. They say: "I'm crazy about you, I want to be with you."

What they really want: “I'm fine now, but I haven't thought about intimacy for the past three days. Are you ready?"

4. They say: "I do not want my girlfriend to dress too openly."

What they really think: "I would be carried away by a girl, no matter what she wears, but I will say so that she understands that there is a class of women who are lower than me."

5. They say: "I want my woman to be not too emotional."

What they really want: “I consider the feminine manifestations of feelings to be superfluous emotions. When I'm angry, it's normal, but it's unacceptable for you, my dear. ”

6. They say: "I need a girl with a simple character."

What they really want is: “I just need a cheeky girl with a bright personality that I can at least digest.”

7. They say: “Let's be friends.”

What they really want: “I really hope that you will understand my hint that we should stop meaningless correspondence right now. Please do not need me to answer. Please do not blame me. Maybe I can pretend that I died, or my phone died, or both of us are dead. ”

8. They say: "I do not want commitment."

What they really think: "I do not want commitment, but I do not want the girl with whom I had an affinity to start a relationship with someone else."

9. They say: "I want me to have a cool girl."

What they really want: “I need a friend who will allow me to do everything that I want and will not disturb me while I watch the sports channel, do not grumble or interfere while I work.”

10. They say: "I want a girl who can challenge me."

What they really want: "I want my girlfriend to agree with mine 99% of everything."

11. They say: “I like a girl who doesn’t look too pretty.”

What they really think: “I like a girl who is pretty good enough to look like she just left the cover of a magazine, but I want it to look natural.”

12. They say: "I like smart girls."

What they really want is: “I like a girl who is smart enough, but if she is too educated in things that challenge my masculinity or the status of a man in a patriarchal society, that sucks.”

13. They say: "I need a girl who has an opinion."

What they really want: “I need a girl who has her own opinion, but who does not voice it too actively or aggressively.”

14. They say: "I need a girl who plays sports."

What they really want: “I need a girl who lets me watch sports channels (and it will annoy me if she understands sports better than I do).”

15. They say: “I need a girl who will be down to earth and honest.”

What they really want is: “I need a girl who will be down to earth and honest, but I will hide details from her and tell frank lies if it will be more convenient for me.”

16. They say: “I want my girlfriend to cook.”

What they really want: "I want my girlfriend to know how to cook."

17. They say: "I want the girl to eat as if she is a man."

What they really want: “I want a girl to eat like a man, but would look like a real super model.”